Baby things

Today we went shopping and I saw so many baby girl things that I wanted to buy for Ember's shelf. The only thing is realism sunk in and I thought "you know, she never touched this doll, or held this bear, or wore this outfit. If I bought it "for her" really it would just be an item sitting on a shelf that would remind me that she wasn't here." So I didn't buy anything. But I often think I want to buy her cute things, stuffed animals, little shoes, and snuggly blankets. I just never can make myself. I know some people continue to buy things in honor of their babies but I haven't reached that point.